Most women, statistically speaking, are night owls when it comes to sex. It’s just the way things are. This can suck, because quite a few guys love a morning romp – and even wake up with morning wood to make things even easier. Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to actually convert yourself from a night sex person to a morning sex person? One writer from wrote about her experience and what happened when her typical night time activity turned into a daily, morning event.experiment? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below.
Author Liz Newman was never really a fan of morning sex. In fact, for her, it was “strictly a nighttime activity” and she couldn’t really figure out why. Perhaps it’s because she’s not a morning person? Well, we can’t blame her. Waking up to sex is kinda strange. But morning sex involves no preparation for the most part – no makeup, sometimes bad morning breath, just-woke-up messy hair, possibly body odor… It isn’t exactly the sexiest thing you can do, granted.
Despite everything, she knows morning sex is inevitable in a relationship. At the very least, she knows that it will be something that will come up in conversation. She’s also aware that, now that she’s getting older, she should be getting more open to different experiences with her body. Morning sex was taboo for her, so why not give it a shot?
There are many reasons to have sex in the morning. It makes you more happy throughout the day. It relieves stress. It gets the blood pumping. Studies have actually shown that this is a great activity for people who want to mellow out the right way in the morning. And, it may even help you conceive!
She began to wonder if she would enjoy having sex every single morning for a solid week. She had decided to make an experiment of it. She explained, “Before this experiment, it was something I merely peppered in if the mood struck; not something I actually worked into my daily routine. Like Miranda from “Sex and the City,” the only thing I ever consistently want inside me that early is coffee.”
So, she did it in the morning, every morning, for a whole week. She had found some pretty interesting results. And, here’s what she had to say about the experience, from a day to day basis. Keep reading!
Day 1… She said that she felt like a “kid before Christmas” and woke up before her alarm even went off. She actually woke up before her partner did, but as soon as she went to down on him for some oral play, he was up and awake. According to Liz, she noticed that she was “full of energy and overall just in a great mood.”
Day 2… You’d think with such a great mood boost, she’d be up for it again the next day, right? Not quite. She wrote, “On this morning, I just wasn’t in the mood — which was a little disconcerting, given that it was only the second day.” Meanwhile, her partner was and so she begrudgingly got to it. She then noted that the experiment was somewhat relaxing, primarily because it was planned.
Day 3… By Day 3, she had started calling her alarm “BANG TIME!” This morning, she couldn’t really start off seriously. Liz wrote, “After our laughter died down, I put his hand on my boob as my “Let’s do this” move, which only resulted in more laughter.” By this day, she felt that there was some serious bonding going on.
Day 4… The 4th day was one where she decided to mix things up and try three new positions. She did spooning, a modified doggy, and then a lotus pose. She found that spooning was her favorite, but didn’t really note anything about how it affected the rest of the day. Perhaps she found a rhythm?
Day 5… By Day 5, it was beginning to be less “play” and more “work.” And, this caused it to become a chore. Liz buckled under the pressure of chores this day. She wrote, “I hit snooze. I was exhausted and just didn’t care. Then I woke up too late, was in a panic, and we had incredibly rushed, over the side of the bed, just-do-it-already sex.” The rest of the day, she was late to work and was very disheveled as a result.
Day 6… Day 6 was a mellow day, but she woke up incredibly horny…but her guy was just not in the mood. According to her, “It took me a lot of foreplay, and even little pleading, to get him to get give me his “full salute,” if you will.” Eventually, things got erotic and her taking the lead definitely worked to her advantage that day.
Day 7… The finish line of the experiment ended with explosive, happy sex because they were both “relieved we could go back to having morning sex when we wanted to, not because we had to. Even pleasurable things can start become painful.” As a result of the newfound freedom, they had breakfast in bed and great sex.
Here’s what she found out… Liz said that while she did have morning sex since the experiment has run, she also found out why it’s possible to have “too much of a good thing.” In other words, if you have to force sex, it’ll be more like a relationship boot camp than anything else. She wrote, “In other words, sex every morning for a week is no picnic, but it’s also a great way to see what you’re made of, both emotionally and physically.”
Physically, there were also some effects worth noting. She said that there was a lot more energy, and that she also got a lot more sexual when she herself was having a lot of sex. The author also noted that she had gotten a huge burst of energy and that she felt more focused.
The one caveat she mentioned. Basically, you can’t worry about orgasming when you do this experiment. Sometimes, it takes more effort than other times. Mentally, it will be a challenge. She wrote, “I was just having fun each time. A lot of this, I suspect, was because of the intimate connection it forms with your significant other. Regardless, it just made me want to reach for more in about every way.”
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