Bisexuals Confess Which Sex Is Worse

We’re always wondering which sex is better at what. If you ask a guy, they’re obviously going to have their own biased opinion, and the same goes for if you ask a woman. However, what if you ask a bisexual person? That seems more fair, right? Whatever their own sex is, they enjoy engaging sexually with both men and women, and they have experience doing so. If you’re going to ask anyone who’s better (or worse) at dating and sex, you might as well ask someone who is most familiar with both sides of the equation. Here’s what real bisexual people had to say about which sex is worse when it comes to certain issues.

Bisexuals. Many people question the validity of those who claim to be bisexual. Some people tend to think that claiming bisexuality is just a trend or a phase or a way to get more attention. To others, it is a very real sexual orientation and way of life, not a conscious choice or defect.

Who better to ask? When it comes to figuring out who is better at sex and dating, men or women, who better to ask than a bisexual person? A bisexual person has, supposedly, equal experience with both sexes. It’s the closest you can get to objectivity.

Each sex has flaws. What we found out by sifting through the responses of real bisexual people was that each sex definitely has its flaws. No one sex totally dominates the other in any given category, so it’s not as simple as finding a clear winner or a clear loser.

Priorities. It also very much has to do with a person’s priorities. Are you looking more for a physical relationship or are you looking more for an emotional connection? These are the kinds of questions you have to ask yourself before you start trying to decipher what it means to be better or worse.

Who’s more romantic? Women came out as the victors in this category. Sorry to break your hearts, but no matter how many times you watch The Notebook you probably won’t get any closer to finding a man like Noah. In general, women tend to be more romantic in their relationships than men.

Too much drama. On the other hand – and we all probably could’ve seen this one coming – girls are apparently more dramatic than their male counterparts. While bisexual people have attraction to both sexes, most tend to prefer the relaxed nature of guys as compared to women.

Threesomes. As you might’ve guessed, when a guy realizes you are bisexual they tend to push for threesomes. One can imagine how annoying this could get after a while. Just because you’re bi, doesn’t mean you want orgies all the time (though, you might!).

Selfish. Following the same train of thought, bisexual people report that guys tend to be more selfish than women. Both in the bedroom and in the relationship in general, men tend to be more about “me” and less about “you”.

Wants commitment. At the other end of the spectrum is the C-word: Commitment. Women reportedly tend to want emotional commitment more than men do. Again, this all points back to what it is you’re seeking from a partner. Some people prefer dating guys because there is less pressure in this department.

Eating out. Women are better at eating out! Yup, sorry dudes. Women admittedly have an advantage in this area because they are more familiar with female anatomy than guys are, but they still beat you. As we all know, oral is a very important matter.

Who’s more jealous? Many of you might think that women would be more territorial, but bisexuals claim that from their experience, men are more easily made jealous. Some people see this as a plus, but some people see this as a major negative.

Age. As a whole, men don’t seem to become more giving or loving until they get much older. At least, this is what we found according to bisexual people. And this isn’t just from a woman’s point of view! Men agree.

Personal preference. Your values and preferences could be totally different than those of the majority. Maybe you are the kind of person who loves having multiple partners. Maybe you’re the kind of person who doesn’t really care much about romance. In your case, some of these flaws aren’t really flaws at all.

Depends on the individual. Just like it depends on your own preferences, it also depends on the other person. Each person is different. You could meet one particular man that happens to be more giving and more emotional than a particular woman. We’re just speaking in generalities.

What you want out of a relationship. Whatever your orientation, you should always think about what you want from a relationship before you enter into one. That way, you won’t accidentally get tangled up in something you’ll end up regretting later.

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