Couples often take decisions to get married when they have been in love for a long time. While only a few of them have the ability to accept the fact about what is going to happen post-marriage.
What am I talking about? Well, let me exemplify. How about you picking a dirty pair of socks from the ground or fighting with your mate for the trash. Everything seems cute and mushy-mushy in love before marriage. But once we get hitched, there are certain things that are needed to be handled. We have to bear the habits of our partners that sometimes annoy us.
The examples that I’ve given to you are just the smaller things and there is a list that doesn’t end here. In fact, it has just started. What you are unaware of, are the bigger things. I just want all the women to know these things before they get married.
I know many of you might have been looking for a prepared rundown, so here it is for you.
1. Your relationship will change
You may think about it or not. But once you get married, your relationship will take a turn. Your man will no longer stay like the way he used to before marriage. You both will have responsibilities to handle that may affect your relationship.
2. It’s all about compromise
Because in every relationship, compromise is the key. If you and your partner are ready to adjust in bigger issues, your relationship will go far.
3. You will be treated like an adult
Yeah, I know. Your inner kid is shouting out loud now but hold on. Accept this fact that once you get married and shift to a new family, you will be treated like an adult. Moreover, once your family, friends etc will get to know about your relationship you will be treated as mature
4. Get ready for the in-laws’
A hard fact that you need to accept. You simply can’t impress everyone at his home. One wrong move and things will take a different turn. You may be having problems with your mother-in-law or someone else in the house.
5. Don’t forget the ‘little things’
The little things, what are they? These are basically those cute concerns that you always had before marriage. Keep asking your spouse how their day has been, discussing what’s going on in our lives are generally the things that we forget to ask after marriage.
6. More love-making
Once you get married, your partner and you will urge to have more sex. But with responsibilities, that may become a bit difficult. You will have to manage your kids thereby maintaining the same spice in your sex life.
7. Differing choices
Well, that may be a case. Sometimes you are a beach person while your husband is not. But somehow this is managed before marriage as you are much in love and you do what your other half likes. After marriage, both of your choices may head in different directions.
8. Getting into a new family
Many women forget that they are going to be a part of a new family after marriage. They will now have to split their calls between their mom and mother-in-law and that sometimes become exhausting.
9. Believe in kindness
Because that is the most important virtue you will ever need after you get married. In fact, marry someone kind because an ‘exciting guy’ won’t rub your back when your 2-year-old kid will be crying.
10. Fight right
Don’t remain silent because by the time passes it may kill your relationship. Fight when it is right to say you have not done anything wrong. You love your family right? The, you shouldn’t feel bad at saying things that are right or wrong.
11. Managing your money
After marriage, it is one of the crucial aspects that women have to take care. You will have to decide where to put your money because before marriage you were spending it on anything you liked. But after marriage, it becomes important to decide whether to save that penny or spend it.
That’s all folks!
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