Parenting changes you. All of the sudden you find yourself responsible for the wellbeing of a tiny, vulnerable creature and every decision you make is critical. The responsibility brings both immense happiness, and stresses you out to the point of collapse. But it can also make you sexier. Yeah, you read that right. Evolution has designed us to gravitate towards responsible co-parents, so it makes sense that a great dad is also a sexy dad. Many women admit that seeing a man rise to the occasion of parenting is totally arousing. Fatherhood brings out the sensitive, responsible, attentive side of men and acts as a full-on aphrodisiac. Here are just a handful of reasons why parenting just made your man a whole lot sexier.Do you find dads more attractive than childless guys? Share your comments below! They show affection. The days of emotionally distant dads are over. Moms love it when their spouse dishes out hugs and kisses as soon as he steps through the door. Showing physical affection and saying “I love you” are signs of peak emotional maturity. And nothing turns a woman on like a man who feels his emotions. They wear their babies. It may look pretty silly when a man straps his newborn infant to his chest for easy portability. Many men consider this solution to be ridiculous and emasculating, but women have a very different take. A father that wears his baby on his chest is in touch with his emotions and confident enough to disregard the opinions of haters. And confidence is sexy. They’re not afraid to get silly. A playful dad is a confident dad. He’s always down to have a tea party or play dress up because he loves how happy it makes his kids. While he’s setting up Lego cities with your son, you’re looking on from the kitchen, swooning. You understand each other. Parenthood causes hormone changes in the brains of parents that bring them closer together. Oxytocin is most notably released in a woman’s brain while giving birth to a child. But it also releases in a man’s brain when he’s playing with his kid. Suddenly, you derive pleasure from the same things. Well, from other stuff too. They care about something other than themselves. Any woman that’s dated knows how selfish guys can be. For some men, fatherhood is the only thing that can pry his attention away from himself. And oh, does it pry. Women are suckers for a guy that puts another’s well-being before his own. The dad bod is sexy. Chiseled, muscular men are great and all, but is that really what women are attracted to? Recently, the so-called “dad bod” has been embraced for its unexpected sexual appeal. It says, “I go to the gym or walk past one once in a while, but I also love to eat cheeseburgers.” Turns out, this byproduct of being a busy father is immensely attractive to women. His responsibility helps you orgasm. A father who pulls his weight in childrearing eases a mother’s stress. It also increases her ability to orgasm, according to research. A good father means less work to do, fewer distractions, and more orgasms, apparently! What’s not to love? Fatherhood humbles him. You’re both going through parenthood together for the first time. You’re both suffering from feelings of cluelessness and panic. Admitting your weakness is the sexiest thing imaginable. It’s like you’re in the trenches together, and it only brings you closer. They cry. You’ve never seen a guy cry from happiness like your baby daddy. And even if you did, it wouldn’t have the deeply attractive effect on you that it has now. Maybe it’s just the hormones, but watching a father embrace his sensitive side is lady kryptonite. Their hormones change. A recent study found that stay-at-home dads show a decrease in testosterone and an increase in estrogen as they assume the role of “mother.” This manifests as greater patience, better verbal skills, and more compassion, making him an even more better father. So. Damn. Hot. They stay ambitious. The father who juggles family life and professional life is seriously hot. It’s like the pressures of work and home life somehow combine to make him into a super dad. The result is a greater, sexier sense of security for mom. He loves your baby body. He’s seen you through more weight fluctuations than your own mother, and he’s still attracted to you! A man that sticks around after seeing you swallow four hamburgers like nothing is a man worth keeping. They loosen the reins. “Personally I prefer a scruffy, relaxed dad to a clean-shaven, stressed-out one,” says Heidi Raykeil, author of “Confessions of a Naughty Mommy.” If you’re constantly working on your child’s behalf, you’re likely to let go of masculine beauty standards out of sheer exhaustion. This could be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. They rise to the challenge. He gets up in the middle of the night to tend to your crying baby. He cooks you dinner when he sees you’re exhausted. The responsibilities of parenting can knock you out, but he’s always there to help pick up the slack. A man that pays attention to your needs so you don’t even have to ask? Sexy. They appreciate their partners. Parenting can be a thankless task. That’s why it’s so deeply arousing when the father of your children takes the time to show his appreciation for you. Who knew being recognized was such a turn on?

The human body is strange. Bumps, ridges, openings and patches of hair cover it haphazardly like a Wooly Willy toy. Evolution has equipped us with all sorts of weird features, like opposable thumbs and long eyelashes. We’ve changed so much since the dawn of man that it’s easy to forget we weren’t always like this. In fact, we used to walk on all fours before doggy style even had a name. Evolutionary biologists have lots of theories about the way our bodies look the way they do, but one theory proposes something rather interesting: that our faces and chests are mimicking our bottom halves. If you really think about the placement of curves and holes on our bodies, it’s not so hard to believe. Here’s how evolution has moved our naughty bits up to our faces.

Boobs, butts and beaks. In his book “The Naked Ape,” English zoologist Desmond Morris theorizes human breasts and lips evolved to mimic our nether regions. He suggests that our obsession with the female chest is a direct reference to the bum, while lips are a visual analogue to genitals.

Stand on your own two feet. Desmond’s explanation for the shared attractiveness of our top and bottom halves has to do with our evolution as upright mammals. As human began walking on two legs, the method of intercourse shifted. Rather than going at it from behind (the traditional way), humans began having sex face-to-face. Our chests and lips adapted accordingly.

From the front to the back. Many researchers speculate breasts and buttocks are attractive to men because of their importance in child rearing. Butts imply childbirth, while breasts imply nursing. But humans have sex for pleasure, not just for reproduction. The writer R. Dale Guthrie believes the increasing popularity of going “braless” has made the connection between swaying breasts and swinging hips clearer.

Growing pains. Other theories propose human female breasts have grown over the years to better accommodate breastfeeding. Their size and shape are relatively unmatched in the animal kingdom, and the variety of female human nipples is huge. Aside from nursing babies, enlarged female breasts give newborns something soft on which to lay.

Your mouth is doing all the talking. The mouth opening is a clear visual echo of the female genitalia. Whether or not we realize it, bright red lipstick reminds us of a woman’s vagina, flushed and red at the moment of maximum sexual receptivity.

Size matters. Humans love to maximize their attractive organs. One needs to look no further than tight jeans and low-cut shirts for proof. But some human cultures go further lengths to increase the size of their sex organs. Women in Maori culture actually tattoo exaggerated lip lines to make their mouths appear wider and curvier.

Change is the only constant. This phenomenon of matching body parts is called automimicry, and it’s divided into four variations. An animal’s features can shift around, duplicate themselves elsewhere, or replicate in the same spot. Animals can also perform mimicry to appear younger or older, usually for mating purposes.

Automimicry isn’t specific to humans. The Gelada baboon’s nipples also bear a close resemblance to their labia. The patterns and coloring of hair are nearly identical in both the chest and vaginal areas.

Conflict or copulation? These organs have evolutionary purposes of both reproduction and self defense. The mandrill, another primate, has a brilliantly red snout that it uses in conflict. Both the male snout and genitalia are brilliant red columns flanked by the same shade of blue skin.

The nose knows. Our noses are full of sexual imagery. Nostrils have an obvious analogue in both the male and female urethra. Noses mimic penises in the way they grow and change shape. They also have the dual associations of attraction and threat. How many cartoon villains can you think of that sport bulbous, oversized noses?

Hair, hair, everywhere. Some scientists believe that eyebrow hair has evolved to bear a striking resemblance to pubic hair in its color and texture. Following this logic, the placement of eyebrows and moustache hair at either end of our (arguably) phallic nose starts to make sense.

Even chins are sexy. In the novel, “The Godfather,” one male character’s cleft chin is described as “obscene.” The references in this case of automimicry are too obvious to name.

Color counts. A study of 40 men showed that sexual responses to the color pink were high, while darker red were deemed less attractive. This makes sense, since lighter pink is associated with genitalia, while darker shades more closely resemble diseased or infected nether regions.

Nipples haven’t always been sensitive sex organs. Research finds that nipple stimulation causes sexual arousal through the release of oxytocin. This focuses a woman’s attention on her partner. Evolutionarily speaking, bigger breasts would increase the surface area for nipple stimulation. Considering that doggy style used to be the only option for mating humans, this perk (pun intended) of face-to-face sex must be an evolutionary development.

Monogamy may be ushering in evolution. Types of sexual stimulation like nipple play activate the female bonding circuit, effectively making women more attached to their partners. Humans are one of the only species that aspires to monogamy, and this psychosexual relationship might just be why.

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